How to Connect with The Fey (The Spirit World)
Although you might not realize it the Fey are all around us. There are more types of Fey than creatures on the planet and not all of them want anything to do with humans. The Fey that really dislike the human race will most often stay away from them, but if one should invade their space they will lash out and become angry. Occasionally this can result in poltergeist type activities. Some Fey like to be mischievous and will do meddlesome things like hide your keys, but they will not act maliciously. And there are other types of Fey that like human company and are intrigued by our antics. These are the types of Fey that are the best to reach out to and try to build a relationship with.
Fey that like humans can be a beneficial energy to have around your household. They will help to keep your home and family safe. They will help to keep other meddling creatures away from your home and you can call upon then in times of need, but in order to do this you have to set up a relationship ahead of time.
If you find yourself in a problem situation and you call on the Fey to help you they are going to want something in return. Even if they like you they won’t do favors for free. It is all about energy exchange for the Fey and if you want their help they are going to expect yours. Luckily connecting to the Fey is easier than you think. Their needs are often simple and honoring their prescience will often go a long way in getting their favor.
One of the best ways to start developing a connection to the Fey is by creating a space for them in or around your home. Create a space that is just for honoring them. Make sure that it is beautifully decorated with items from nature. Often a lovely and cared for houseplant will do for starters. When you water or prune your plant make sure to announce out loud that you are doing so for the Fey. Explain that this is their sacred place in your home. These steps are also good for your overall well-being/mindset/vibration in that you observe and appreciate the natural world around you.
Get a small dish or bowl and leave offering for the Fey in this space. Milk, honey, flowers, and other sweets items are a particular favorite for the Fey. Don’t expect these offering to disappear, but they might. Most often the Fey just take the energetic nourishment from the offerings left and not the physical. Keep your Fey altar space clean. Don’t let the food left rot, this could offend the Fey and cause them to leave your home or stop helping you.
Once you have all the items you want to add to your Fey altar light a candle or some incense and say out loud what you have done and why you have done it. Make sure to tell the Fey that you are hoping to develop a helpful relationship with them. Leave offering for the on a regular basis and then when you need to call upon them for help they will be more receptive. Just like any relationship their space needs to be tended and taken care of if you expect their on-going help.
When you do need their assistance leave and offering, light a candle, and say out loud what it is you want their help with. Tell them the details of what is going on in your life and what you hope the outcome to be. The more information you are able to share the better.
Most often the Fey that choose to live in or around human space do so because they enjoy the company of humans. Even the most mischievous of Fey will become more helpful if they are respected and given space. Working with the Fey as allies in your life can help doors to open for you and bring harmony to your home.